How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:03
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Ask yourself:
Hangs out with loser friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What's the funniest thing you heard in a movie theater?
What I need from you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
If Trump were to lose in 2024, would that be the end of his grip on the Republican Party?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What have I done wrong? How can I start over?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How often do prisoners try to escape from jail/prison, and how many of them succeed?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Making more friends is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
That's it for today.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why does an older married man turn bisexual?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: